Xmas Update!

Update!!! 12/28/12

      One of my SDs , who I'll call Lerner, got me a dress for Xmas! Actually, I don't consider him a sd, but whatever. I haven't talked about this guy much because he is always so busy! We made plans for dinner Wed., but he canceled. Tonight we had dinner, and afterwards he had a gift for me! I wanted this dress a few weeks ago, but he told me it had sold out! Lol.

I thought the gift was a bit light weighted to be a dress. So, after unraveling the Xmas wrapping, (that he neatly done himself), I thought it was a shirt! However, it was my David Lerner dress! This guy is so sweet! This was our second date, and we've only had dinner both outings! I love that he's so thoughtful!

NOLA is supposedly sending me money tomorrow. We'll see if he comes through. ;)

Not So Merry Xmas....

     I didn't receive anything from any of the 10 SDs I'm talking to! Ok, so, in reality I've only went out with three of them, but they didn't give anything either! I'm so disappointed, ashamed, and thinking about dropping the sugar hunt. Even my NOLA SD skipped out! (His update below!) I've started talking to regular guys, and think I'm going to see how that goes. I just want to be happy, at this point. Eff the sugar! Btw, my ex and I are not getting back together. We broke up for a reason, and I do not wish to revisit the past.

NOLA

     I have not traveled anywhere since October! I now know for sure that he's flying someone else. There's no reason for him to skip out, other than him having another sugar baby! I'm disappointed that he did not tell me upfront about this. So, I talked to him Xmas Eve, and he said he's planning something for January. Whatever, he's been planning since November! I'm almost over this guy. He never gave me as much as I wanted anyway. I only really stuck around because I don't have a better SD.

***The sugar world is suppose to make things less stressful. Eh, I guess you win some, and you lose some.***

Ir o no ir es el problema....

So, I met up with a POT last night. We went out for one of my favorites, Indian food! All went well, but he said he wouldn't be available until January. The idea of keeping in touch until our next outing do come up. However, I just don't know how interested he is. I feel he should be making more of an effort. That is, if he really wants me as his sb. So, I'm not so sure if I should leave or stick around for a bit longer?! I mean, we've met up twice for dinner, and have been communicating since September!

This brings me to my next dilemma! He has yet to ask what I'm looking for!!! Expectations, allowance, nothing of the sort has come up yet! I read in a blog that this should be the topic of conversation by the second date, at most. The third day is a stretch.

Furthermore, he doesn't really provide me with any professional advice. He asked about how my job search was going, and I told him I had a few interviews last week. However, nothing stemmed from them. He just nodded, and said "yea, it can be tough." I asked him his perspective on where I might be going wrong, and he gave me a mediocre answer. "Employers, most of the time, are looking for experienced candidates, but they will not take a chance to give you that experience." Well, duh! It's one of the reasons I'm having a hard time finding a job. This is a masters educated guy! I'm sure he has more knowledge than that for me!

He seemed bored throughout the entire date. To think of it, we were supposed to see a movie afterwards, but he said he was tired. So, maybe he was just really tired, and just a bit spacey for the night. I'm not sure what to do! Especially, since Xmas is coming up, and I definitely want something from my SDs! I want to go into the new year with a stacked bank account!