Xmas Update!

Update!!! 12/28/12

      One of my SDs , who I'll call Lerner, got me a dress for Xmas! Actually, I don't consider him a sd, but whatever. I haven't talked about this guy much because he is always so busy! We made plans for dinner Wed., but he canceled. Tonight we had dinner, and afterwards he had a gift for me! I wanted this dress a few weeks ago, but he told me it had sold out! Lol.

I thought the gift was a bit light weighted to be a dress. So, after unraveling the Xmas wrapping, (that he neatly done himself), I thought it was a shirt! However, it was my David Lerner dress! This guy is so sweet! This was our second date, and we've only had dinner both outings! I love that he's so thoughtful!

NOLA is supposedly sending me money tomorrow. We'll see if he comes through. ;)

Not So Merry Xmas....

     I didn't receive anything from any of the 10 SDs I'm talking to! Ok, so, in reality I've only went out with three of them, but they didn't give anything either! I'm so disappointed, ashamed, and thinking about dropping the sugar hunt. Even my NOLA SD skipped out! (His update below!) I've started talking to regular guys, and think I'm going to see how that goes. I just want to be happy, at this point. Eff the sugar! Btw, my ex and I are not getting back together. We broke up for a reason, and I do not wish to revisit the past.

NOLA

     I have not traveled anywhere since October! I now know for sure that he's flying someone else. There's no reason for him to skip out, other than him having another sugar baby! I'm disappointed that he did not tell me upfront about this. So, I talked to him Xmas Eve, and he said he's planning something for January. Whatever, he's been planning since November! I'm almost over this guy. He never gave me as much as I wanted anyway. I only really stuck around because I don't have a better SD.

***The sugar world is suppose to make things less stressful. Eh, I guess you win some, and you lose some.***

Lights, Camera, Action

Producer/Actor Guy

     I was determined to get a window seat on the plane, and there were a few available. So, I asked the stewardess if there was anyone assigned to the empty row I spotted. To my avail, there was not! Hooray! Unfortunately, a mother and her two young boys stroll down the aisle looking for seats, together. 😒 So, of course, I give them the seats! Not only because the kiddies were adorable, but because there's no way I couldn't give up the seats without it being on my conscious! So, I move up a seat, and ask the gentleman seated on the aisle (seat) if he would mind if I shared the row with him. He almost instantly arose for me! Yay, I have a window seat, and I'm not stuck in the back! Ugh, I hate the rear seats! At any rate, my plan for sleeping fell through. We began chatting, and the conversation lasted the whole two hours of the flight! We discussed films, educations, careers, and more.

     Phew, the time really passed quickly! As we began to descend, he asks if I would like to exchange contact information. Sure, no harm in that, right?! "What's your name?" I ask as I grab my phone. He doesn't say anything, and proceeds to search for what turns out to be his plane ticket. As I looked down at his name, (because he dared not to speak it out loud), I did NOT see anything that stuck out. So, I copied the info into my phone. We exchanged numbers, wished one another well, and went our separate ways.

    As I waited for my connecting flight, I did a little research on the films we discussed! So, this guy is a producer, and actor! That much I knew already from our chat, but did not expect to find what I did. So, I failed to realize WHO he was until I told my mom about him. She suggested that he is kin to a very prominent actor. So, I look it up, and sure enough, he is! Omg, did I really just meet this guy, and not connect the dots to who he might be?! Yep, I'll admit it! I'm just a bit ditsy at times!

     I'm way to nervous to ask him about it. I mean, I do not want him to think in talking to him because of who he is. Though, how could he when I didn't even know who he was when we exchanged contact info?! So, I say nothing. About two weeks later we phone chat, and yet I say nothing. Fast forward to today, I send him a text wishing him happy holidays. He calls me, and I miss the call. However, of course, I return it! We discuss his upcoming films, and what he's working on now. We also discuss my plans, career moves, etc.. (Btw, I have an interview I tomorrow! Wish me luck!) So, I have to ask him about who he is because I feel I'm being deceitful. (I'm not sure why, I just felt I was hiding something.) He confirms, and we move on! I should have asked earlier! I feel much more relieved now! Lol. I'm going to keep in touch, but not too much! He's married!

**Be back in twenty thirteen!!!** 

Past, Pass, Bust?

Case of the Ex
 

      Soooo, my ex and I have been texting all day! Four years after our break-up, we're highly considering getting back together! I'm hesitant because I love the sugar lifestyle! However, should I sacrifice true love for a little sugar? Indeed, right now, I'm not a top notch sugar baby. So, I really don't think the sugar is worth it, but I'm addicted!

Update on POTs

     Mr. Casino canceled on me because of my refusal to send nudie pics. Oh, well, on to the next. So, I met up with Mr. Audi, from Chicago. He tries to get it in, and of course I decline! It's the first date mr! So, he says he has an emergency at work, and has to go and see about it. He gave me $40 to eat lunch alone. I felt so unwanted, and cheap. Btw, I haven't heard from him since Friday, our date day. :/ Bye bye Audi?

     He's trying to set something set up before or right after Xmas! Most importantly, he's looking into tickets for the Norte Dame, his alma mater, football game in Miami! I'll be more than pleased with either trip! I just want to escape for a few days, at least.

Gambling on Change!

My Profile Changes

 

     Sorry, if I confused those following this blog!!! I had to change a few things on my profile because I left my phone out, and I think someone might have seen my blog. I am not ashamed of this blog, but I would not like certain people(Father, Sds, POTs, etc.) to see.

My Work Life

     I am still jobless. However, one of my SDs kind of offered me a job. The job will not be available until next year. So, I still need something in the meantime. Besides, we might not be in contact next year! I've been checking into different certifications that will help me with my search. I also went on an application spree yesterday, and I'm hoping something comes through! I have been home for four months, and I am sick to my stomach not being able to use my degree!

POTs

     So, since I posted last week, I have chatted with six different POTs!!! I am assuming that out of them all, I will probably actively pursue two! I've exchanged numbers with four of them. So far, only three of the four has had time to talk. I have a date this Thursday with one of them, Mr. Casino, at a casino. Lol. He is hoping I'll be his good luck charm, and I'm hoping I'll get lucky as well! ;) (I'm actually texting him, and Mr. Impatient, as I type this!) Jaja!

     Mr. Impatient just asked for nude photos! My response, "No, way, buddy!" Wth?! We've literally just exchanged numbers a few days ago!! I just asked him if that was a dealbreaker, and he said no. However, he also asked what does my free time look like! Hmmm, I'll have to be careful with him.

     At any rate, I don't have any other dates confirmed as of now! We'll see how things go with Mr. Casino. He seems sweet, but he's an older guy. Yea, most are, but I'm not used to them looking as old! Hehe. Until next time!!!

Ir o no ir es el problema....

So, I met up with a POT last night. We went out for one of my favorites, Indian food! All went well, but he said he wouldn't be available until January. The idea of keeping in touch until our next outing do come up. However, I just don't know how interested he is. I feel he should be making more of an effort. That is, if he really wants me as his sb. So, I'm not so sure if I should leave or stick around for a bit longer?! I mean, we've met up twice for dinner, and have been communicating since September!

This brings me to my next dilemma! He has yet to ask what I'm looking for!!! Expectations, allowance, nothing of the sort has come up yet! I read in a blog that this should be the topic of conversation by the second date, at most. The third day is a stretch.

Furthermore, he doesn't really provide me with any professional advice. He asked about how my job search was going, and I told him I had a few interviews last week. However, nothing stemmed from them. He just nodded, and said "yea, it can be tough." I asked him his perspective on where I might be going wrong, and he gave me a mediocre answer. "Employers, most of the time, are looking for experienced candidates, but they will not take a chance to give you that experience." Well, duh! It's one of the reasons I'm having a hard time finding a job. This is a masters educated guy! I'm sure he has more knowledge than that for me!

He seemed bored throughout the entire date. To think of it, we were supposed to see a movie afterwards, but he said he was tired. So, maybe he was just really tired, and just a bit spacey for the night. I'm not sure what to do! Especially, since Xmas is coming up, and I definitely want something from my SDs! I want to go into the new year with a stacked bank account!

Chitown Benefits

     Omg! I had a wonderful time this weekend! I met up with NOLA in Chicago this past Friday evening. I didn't want dinner. So, he grabbed something before we met up. We went to see a movie, the one with Brad Pitt. (I don't remember the name.) Lol. I wanted to see Flight, but he was like, "Nah." Hehe.

     Saturday, we went sightseeing for the most part. We ended up at a flea market. I'm thinkin I hope he isn't trying to take me shopping here! Well, the churro was oh so delicious, but I'm not looking for any other goods at a flea market. Not with my SD, that is. Lol. So, he asks around for another flea market, and we head over to it. Well, by this point I know for sure he must be looking for something in particular. So, I ask him, and he says he's looking for an old friend.

     So, we get to the 2nd flea market, and sure enough the first person we ask knows the guy he's looking for! So, I let him talk and catch, while I explore the FLEE (because I wanted to flee to a real mall!) market.

     Afterwards, we headed back to the hotel to freshen up. Then, we headed out to go shopping! Contrary to what I've just written above I really don't want to go shopping. I'd just ordered boots, and was planning to save anything I'll be getting from SDs for the rest if the year. However, he gave me money. So, I headed to the boot section(lol) while he search for a shirt.

     I didn't find anything, and that was ok with me. I pocketed the money, he made his purchase, and we headed out. On the way back, I stopped at the best spa an nail ever, Belle, while he headed back to the hotel. (We had passed this place on the way to do some shopping, and he asked if I wanted to get my nails done.) Of course, I do! I almost expect him to do this for me every time! Hehe. He always asks. At any rate, we later went to a benefit concert featuring Musiq Soulchild!

    Honestly, we initially searched for tickets for the Miguel concert, but it was sold out! Lol. So, he lucked up, and found the benefit concert. Now, when he purchased them, he didn't know that it was a benefit concert, but it turned out really well. The Calhoun family of Chicago puts on an annual benefit concert to raise money for college scholarships for the youth. (I was surprised to see Darlene from Fox News co-hosting!) So, it was a good time for a good cause!

***Well, that's my news for the time being! He wants to go somewhere warm next time. So, hopefully he sticks to that idea when booking flights! Lol.


P.S. I just left Jamba Juice, and the server made too much for my 16oz. So, I was upgraded to a 20oz for free! :) Also, I have a second date Thursday with a POT! Wish me luck!

Black Friday Delight!

Next week?!

     This week, I was supposed to have two second dates with POTs! One never responded when I called to verify the location, and time. However, he did call on Turkey Day, and failed to mention our missed date. The other rescheduled for next week. I understand this because he's a regional manager of one the biggest "Black Friday" retail stores. So, I'm set to meet with him next Thurs..

     I'm thinking I should forget about the first guy. I mean, I feel if he was truely interested, he'd make more of an effort. The thing is he's a younger sd, and really hot! I was really counting on the laptop as well! Lol. I guess I'm going to have to make that purchase on my own. :/

A Few Hundred
 
   Ok, sooo, I'm totally adoring NOLA! Kind of. Lol. He sent me over a few hundred dollars to do Black Friday shopping! I would have totally liked to have seen more money when I picked up my money gram. Lol. However, I'm trying to be grateful. Especially, since the Black Friday cash was unexpected! I haven't really spent the money yet, but I'm thinking I'll take half and buy Christmas gifts. The outlet mall has a really nice sale going on this weekend!

    The downfall, we're not going to Miami. :/ I don't think he could find "deals" for flights. (Dude, you're an SD!!! You shouldn't need deals to make something happen!) So, he's coming to Chicago next week, and I'll join him. I'm excited for what we'll do! He'll be here for almost a week! :)

***Well, I'll update in about a week! Take care!

He Is Not About The Life!!!!

     Ok, beautiful people! I know I said I'd be posting after Turkey Day, buuuuut this "sd" is up in alert! His name ryhmes with Bewaine, and I met him on AM. So, this was our second date, and he promised he'd help me out with bills, along with taking me shopping. Btw, we met in a city away from both of our towns. (So, everything was set up to sleep over in a hotel.) So, we pretty much just go window shopping. (I so meet the loser SDs. Blah) His reasoning was that he didn't want to spend much since I needed money for bills, etc..
   
     This was the first sign he wasn't a legit sd! BEWARE of the signs! So, we have dinner, and head back to the hotel. He want to play, and so do I. However, I had a funny feeling about him. Rather that was stds or whatever. So, I just let him play with my noobs, and take a few faceless pics. I note that I'm  cold, he gets into the other bed, and I fall asleep.

     The next morning, we do breakfast(which was complimentary at the hotel, btw) and discuss how we thought our time together was, and what'd it'd be like next time. At the end, what do I get?! $70 and a gas gift card he'd already used once! To add to the madness, I had to squeeze the last $20 out of him! Then, he asked for $10 back! Wth?! Worst sd ever! He did said he's a new sd, but that's not an excuse! Especially, after I specifically told you what I'm looking for.

     Needless to say, I will not be meeting him again! He had the audacity to ask if I'd want to meet up again, while promising he'd do more. Uh, of course..... Not!!!! I'm so disappointed, but I'm glad I can move on from him! Besides, he wasn't at all attractive!

***sidenote: I did meet up with the guy Friday, and he had $200 bucks for me to fix my car! I didn't take it because I really like him, and want him to know I'm not just in it for money. Plus, I told him it was to pay friends back for fixing my car. I do need my car fixed, but I hadn't done it yet. We're going out again tomorrow. I'm thinking we'd go rock climbing! Woo hoo! Lol. Btw, this is the guy who said he'd buy me a laptop since my screen cracked on my old one months ago! We'll see if he has that for me tomorrow! ;)

Be in touch after Turkey Day, serious this time!

New SDs and NOLA!!!

      Ok, so, I've officially found two more SDs. This brings my total to three, and I'm ok with that until any of them, or I, decides split. Lol. I've only been out once each with the new SDs, but I'll be going away this weekend with one of them. Btw, he ever so kindly paid my cell phone bill (I have a family plan ;)) Also, we will be going shopping, and hopefully he'll be giving me some cash as well. We'll see because he seems like the type to just pay the bill for me without giving me cash in hand. :(

       As far as the other new SD, we'll be meeting up again next week for dinner. I'm not sure what else we'll do, but I'm going to suggest a early dinner so that we can get some shopping or something in. Lol.

       NOLA has been so good to me!!! He sent me a few hundreds to get my hair done! (I wear extensions. Lol.) He is also currently planning our trip to Miami for the week after Turkey Day! I'm so excited! The only thing about him is that I still haven't gotten my Fall package! He said he just hasn't gotten around to it, which is understandable because of the things he has going on. However, it's been almost a month!!! I'm starting to think he didn't even place the order! :( We'll see, he's never fell through on any promises. So, I'm keeping hope that he'll be sending it soon. :)

     Well, I will most likely update after TDay! Hope all is well lovelies!

NYC and New Pots

NYC

      Soooo, my NOLA seemed to be avoiding me about a week after our trip to Houston. I couldn't believe it! I had gotten intimate with him, and thought we both had a good time! Well, after a few days, he calls explaining that he hasn't been feeling to well. So, he got some tests done. I guess it was just a mild cold or something because the tests came out ok. Well, that what I was told. Lol.

      I noticed he's been online, and that's fine. However, let me know what you're trying to do.  I'm assuming he's looking for a new sb because he wants someone slimmer, and fit. I hope this Ian the case. Especially, since I'm really counting on the trip to Paris! :)

      Of course we all know about Hurricane Sandy, and because of that,
the NYC trip is cancelled for now. :( Any suggestions in regards to where we should go?!

***He said my package hasn't been sent because of everything going on. Hmmm. Supposedly, he'll ship it out by the end if the week.


New Pots

     Well, I have two dates this weekend! So far, I have one Friday(Not sure where yet), and one Saturday(Sushi dinner)! I decided I need to aggressively search for new SDs. One reason being the agreement with my current one isn't monetary. Secondly, I need an sd closer to home who's a bit less flaky than my current one. So, yea, I'm on the hunt. Currently, I'm talking to about 6 or 7 Pots. I will only be going past the first date with two of them. I'll keep re others in reserve. Hehe.

    Until next week! 😉

P.S. I have two big job interviews next week! Wish me luck!

Short Update: Houston and NYC

Houston

     I had an amazing time! Upon my arrival, he had a gift basket of perfume waiting for me. The brand was not my taste, but I didn't Say anything. Besides, it did smell good. The first day we had breakfast, went around to inquire about jobs, shopping, and later dinner. My favorite is shopping! He bought Armani sunglasses, career clothing, make-up, and workout shoes and sports bras. The next day, we had breakfast, and I went to an interview. (I'm hoping it went well!) Then, we saw a movie, had dinner, and headed to a Houston Rockets' pregame. We had pretty good seats, I could've sworn one of the Memphis players was checking me out the entire game! Maybe, it was just me. (Hmmm?!)

New York City!!!

     It's set! We'll going there next! I can hardly wait. However, I'm going to have to talk to him about finances because I want a bit more than what he's been giving me to shop with. I don't think I will be satisfied with a few hundred in NYC. I never been, but I assume it's pricey. Also, we've been going to nice restaurants, but I want to dine celeb-esque when we visit NYC! Well, until next time!

***He's mailing me some clothing and shoes!

Ride Em Cow..... girl!

        Soooo, tomorrow I am off to Houston! This trip was supposed to be to NYC. However, I think my sd is waiting on me to make a "move." Lol, I'm pretty sure he was ready the last time I visited him in NOLA. Since then, he's been almost directly hinting he wants in my undies! Lol. Idk what I'm going to do! I'm not really sure if I want to go there with him yet. However, I feel as, if I don't he will drop me, and find another. Argh! SB dilemmas!

        At any rate, while I'm in TX, I will also be job hunting. My SD offered to set me up until I get on my feet, but I'd have to have a job upon arrival. I'm ok with this because I don't want to be totally dependant on anyone. Especially, being that I don't know too many people there. I will only be there for two full days. So, I have I make the most of it. I also want to meet up with some sorors, family, and maybe even sneak in a night of the club life. Lol.

Well, I will update after I return from Houston! Until then, lovelies!

***Also, he asked for my sizes! So, I'm thinking he'll have something cute planned for me! Hmmm! ;)

Flying First Class...

...Up in the sky

      So, I arrived in NOLA yesterday afternoon. I wasn't in first class, but that would've been nice. Right?! Lol. Just as a warning, this post will be a bit short. Lol. I'm in NOLA until Sat., with my best sd! So, I told him about my crappy Android phone, and he got me an iPhone! Ok, so, it's not the iphone5, but I didn't want to push my luck or seem ungrateful. Also, early on, he gave me a few hundred dollars for, "pocket change," right after my flight landed here. I got a mani pedi, workout clothing, and a pair of SHOES! 

     So, my Nike comfort footbed flip flops broke! These aren't inexpensive sandals! I was oh so surprised when this happened in the MALL! Good thing I was in there when it happened. (He dropped me off, and went to handle business with work.)

     All is going well, thus far. I can tell he's thinking about intimacy. It's that time of the month for me. So,  I don't have to worry about an excuse this time. Besides, he's a good looking guy. So, I'll probably be ok when the time comes.

I'll update this post after I return home! Happy weekend!

P.S. Lil Wayne was literally a few blocks(about 25mins) away from where I was getting my nails done! I would've loved to get a pic, at least!

Update: Mr. Grey & The Fraud

50 Shades?
    
      So, about a week ago, I discussed a trip to NY. Well, that trip has been canceled until October! He gets free Jets/Giants tickets. He has some for this weekend, but needed to be in his hometown for business. So, the trip is delayed a few weeks. I'm ok with that. However, he will be flying me down to NOLA soon. Hopefully, next weekend because I'm ready for a change of scenery!

$50 5hr Trip

     Of course, I did NOT go! However, I have a friend that went a couple of times, thinking this guy would change! So, the first time she went, she took a 7hr+ bus ride to see Dablo.* She told me he reimbursed the round-trip, he told me he only gave her $40.

    Let's rewind! I'm in the car with Dablo driving around the city, and he asks if I want to see pics of his ex-sbs. Well, sure, why not? (This is rude of him, but I oblige.)  Btw, this occurs before he tries to pull the willy over me. Lol. Anyway, so, we're flicking through the pics, and I'm like, "Um, I know this girl." (This is when I find out that my "friend" has already seen this guy.) So, next up is a video. Hmmm. I will not go into grave detail, but I will say it was a sex tape of my friend! She's a play for pay type of sb, and figured a big reward would be awaiting at the end of their rendezvous. Wooow, really?!

    So, I ask her about it after I get home. I'm like, "Demi*, I've been saying I'm meeting this guy, using his name, for the past few weeks, and you failed to inform me that this guy is a fraud"! Then, I hit her with the sex tape info, and she's like, "I was a bit ashamed to say what happened." I was at a lost for words. This guy was trying to play me, like he played her! To make matters worse, I found out HE LEFT RIGHT AFTER HE GOT WHAT HE WANTED, saying, "I have to feed my dog." Lol. OMG, this guy is insane!

***The possibility of this situation occurring is why I do not do play for pay. That, and I've had a personal experience with this before.***

BE SAFE!!!!

Mr. Fraud

     The Before
     On a completely different "sd" note, I got played! So, back in July, I met up with Dablo,* who seemed to be pretty legit. Agreed upon my arrival were gifts, one for my bday, gas reimbursement, and a meeting fee( whatsyourprice.com). So, I was pretty excited, and wasn't concerned about the TWO hour drive to meet him. Upon his request, we met at mall, (I thought that was a sign... haha). I hopped in his car, and we went to a mediocre sushi place, but it was a good restaurant. (Be careful with this, My naive behavior will be addressed later.)

     He ended up not having any gifts, including the gas reimbursement. In addition, he picked up condoms, with me in the car, and expected me to go to a hotel with him. I let him book the hotel, and even had him buy wine, of which I had a half of (plastic) cup. Classy, right?! At any rate, I told him that he should not expect me to sleep with him, especially on the first meeting. I left after he refused to give me gas.

    Longer story short, he called me last week! Haha, some audacity this guy has contacting me! I started to give him the unruliest message ever. However, I opted to give him a taste of his own medicine! Haha! He wants me to drive to him, even though he knows I'm now more than 5hrs away! Even crazier, he wants me to drive to him for $50, supposedly, another $50 when I get there! So, I told him to send the $50, he does. We then make plans for me to drive down. I upheld everything to even a set time when I "departed" my city. Lol. A few hours later he calls asking, "How far along are you"? "Well, my car broke down", is what I tell him. However, I had never left! This was my little tactic to receive some kind of reimbursement for my previous meeting with him. I know this seems awful, but the guy should not be on the site if he's going to be a fraud. He wasted my time, and money. At least, his time was spared.

*This denotes the name I used as a pseudonym. Also, there's more to this story, and it's even worse than the way he played me. I'll update you all in another post!

Mr. Grey?

Not quite! Lol. 

   The Current
     However, my current sd and I will be heading to NY in a few weeks! On a related note, I'm a bit nervous to ask this guy for things. I mean, I have an sd who I've never been afraid to ask for help, but it's a bit different with this guy. We already established that I don't want any monetary assistance from him. However, we discussed shopping, trips, social events, etc.. Well, I'm ready to go shopping! Haha!

     The thing is, I don't know how to ask! I mean, we've only met up once, but we've been chatting for almost two months. In addition, he must be interested if we're planning another meeting. Then, I think.... "Well, we're going to NY. So, there has to be some shopping in there somewhere, right?!" Argh, I think I'm going to wait it out with this guy. Lol. I mean, I don't necessarily need anything. I just want! Hehe. Ok, that is settle, I will not ask just yet! Besides, he knows what I want. So, I'm sure that is something he's worked in our trip.

New Beginnings

      Well, I have quite a few experiences to blog about! However, I will start with my current SD (sugar daddy). So, I met him, (online), about a month ago. Two weeks ago, he flew me in to his hometown, and set me up with a hotel for a few days. We did not sleep, or even stay together! He was very respectful, and took me out to eat, casinos, and much more! We didn't go shopping, nor did he give me cash or anything. I didn't expect any of that to happen on a first meet. (Some sd's are willing to give up cash, and more on the first meet. I've actually met a few that have done so.)

    So, him and I have kept in touch, and will be flying out to our next vacation destination soon! He asked me where would I like to go. However, being somewhat of a modest person, I encouraged him to decide where we'd go. I will definitely blog an update on this, and past experiences I've had!

   Well, there we have it! My first official blog post! Go figure, it would be a sugar baby blog. Lol! I know it was a bit rushed, and I will update you all soon! I will also list more information about sites, and experiences on the site!

Until next time! Muah!