Xmas Update!

Update!!! 12/28/12

      One of my SDs , who I'll call Lerner, got me a dress for Xmas! Actually, I don't consider him a sd, but whatever. I haven't talked about this guy much because he is always so busy! We made plans for dinner Wed., but he canceled. Tonight we had dinner, and afterwards he had a gift for me! I wanted this dress a few weeks ago, but he told me it had sold out! Lol.

I thought the gift was a bit light weighted to be a dress. So, after unraveling the Xmas wrapping, (that he neatly done himself), I thought it was a shirt! However, it was my David Lerner dress! This guy is so sweet! This was our second date, and we've only had dinner both outings! I love that he's so thoughtful!

NOLA is supposedly sending me money tomorrow. We'll see if he comes through. ;)

Not So Merry Xmas....

     I didn't receive anything from any of the 10 SDs I'm talking to! Ok, so, in reality I've only went out with three of them, but they didn't give anything either! I'm so disappointed, ashamed, and thinking about dropping the sugar hunt. Even my NOLA SD skipped out! (His update below!) I've started talking to regular guys, and think I'm going to see how that goes. I just want to be happy, at this point. Eff the sugar! Btw, my ex and I are not getting back together. We broke up for a reason, and I do not wish to revisit the past.

NOLA

     I have not traveled anywhere since October! I now know for sure that he's flying someone else. There's no reason for him to skip out, other than him having another sugar baby! I'm disappointed that he did not tell me upfront about this. So, I talked to him Xmas Eve, and he said he's planning something for January. Whatever, he's been planning since November! I'm almost over this guy. He never gave me as much as I wanted anyway. I only really stuck around because I don't have a better SD.

***The sugar world is suppose to make things less stressful. Eh, I guess you win some, and you lose some.***

Lights, Camera, Action

Producer/Actor Guy

     I was determined to get a window seat on the plane, and there were a few available. So, I asked the stewardess if there was anyone assigned to the empty row I spotted. To my avail, there was not! Hooray! Unfortunately, a mother and her two young boys stroll down the aisle looking for seats, together. 😒 So, of course, I give them the seats! Not only because the kiddies were adorable, but because there's no way I couldn't give up the seats without it being on my conscious! So, I move up a seat, and ask the gentleman seated on the aisle (seat) if he would mind if I shared the row with him. He almost instantly arose for me! Yay, I have a window seat, and I'm not stuck in the back! Ugh, I hate the rear seats! At any rate, my plan for sleeping fell through. We began chatting, and the conversation lasted the whole two hours of the flight! We discussed films, educations, careers, and more.

     Phew, the time really passed quickly! As we began to descend, he asks if I would like to exchange contact information. Sure, no harm in that, right?! "What's your name?" I ask as I grab my phone. He doesn't say anything, and proceeds to search for what turns out to be his plane ticket. As I looked down at his name, (because he dared not to speak it out loud), I did NOT see anything that stuck out. So, I copied the info into my phone. We exchanged numbers, wished one another well, and went our separate ways.

    As I waited for my connecting flight, I did a little research on the films we discussed! So, this guy is a producer, and actor! That much I knew already from our chat, but did not expect to find what I did. So, I failed to realize WHO he was until I told my mom about him. She suggested that he is kin to a very prominent actor. So, I look it up, and sure enough, he is! Omg, did I really just meet this guy, and not connect the dots to who he might be?! Yep, I'll admit it! I'm just a bit ditsy at times!

     I'm way to nervous to ask him about it. I mean, I do not want him to think in talking to him because of who he is. Though, how could he when I didn't even know who he was when we exchanged contact info?! So, I say nothing. About two weeks later we phone chat, and yet I say nothing. Fast forward to today, I send him a text wishing him happy holidays. He calls me, and I miss the call. However, of course, I return it! We discuss his upcoming films, and what he's working on now. We also discuss my plans, career moves, etc.. (Btw, I have an interview I tomorrow! Wish me luck!) So, I have to ask him about who he is because I feel I'm being deceitful. (I'm not sure why, I just felt I was hiding something.) He confirms, and we move on! I should have asked earlier! I feel much more relieved now! Lol. I'm going to keep in touch, but not too much! He's married!

**Be back in twenty thirteen!!!** 

Past, Pass, Bust?

Case of the Ex
 

      Soooo, my ex and I have been texting all day! Four years after our break-up, we're highly considering getting back together! I'm hesitant because I love the sugar lifestyle! However, should I sacrifice true love for a little sugar? Indeed, right now, I'm not a top notch sugar baby. So, I really don't think the sugar is worth it, but I'm addicted!

Update on POTs

     Mr. Casino canceled on me because of my refusal to send nudie pics. Oh, well, on to the next. So, I met up with Mr. Audi, from Chicago. He tries to get it in, and of course I decline! It's the first date mr! So, he says he has an emergency at work, and has to go and see about it. He gave me $40 to eat lunch alone. I felt so unwanted, and cheap. Btw, I haven't heard from him since Friday, our date day. :/ Bye bye Audi?

     He's trying to set something set up before or right after Xmas! Most importantly, he's looking into tickets for the Norte Dame, his alma mater, football game in Miami! I'll be more than pleased with either trip! I just want to escape for a few days, at least.

Gambling on Change!

My Profile Changes

 

     Sorry, if I confused those following this blog!!! I had to change a few things on my profile because I left my phone out, and I think someone might have seen my blog. I am not ashamed of this blog, but I would not like certain people(Father, Sds, POTs, etc.) to see.

My Work Life

     I am still jobless. However, one of my SDs kind of offered me a job. The job will not be available until next year. So, I still need something in the meantime. Besides, we might not be in contact next year! I've been checking into different certifications that will help me with my search. I also went on an application spree yesterday, and I'm hoping something comes through! I have been home for four months, and I am sick to my stomach not being able to use my degree!

POTs

     So, since I posted last week, I have chatted with six different POTs!!! I am assuming that out of them all, I will probably actively pursue two! I've exchanged numbers with four of them. So far, only three of the four has had time to talk. I have a date this Thursday with one of them, Mr. Casino, at a casino. Lol. He is hoping I'll be his good luck charm, and I'm hoping I'll get lucky as well! ;) (I'm actually texting him, and Mr. Impatient, as I type this!) Jaja!

     Mr. Impatient just asked for nude photos! My response, "No, way, buddy!" Wth?! We've literally just exchanged numbers a few days ago!! I just asked him if that was a dealbreaker, and he said no. However, he also asked what does my free time look like! Hmmm, I'll have to be careful with him.

     At any rate, I don't have any other dates confirmed as of now! We'll see how things go with Mr. Casino. He seems sweet, but he's an older guy. Yea, most are, but I'm not used to them looking as old! Hehe. Until next time!!!

Ir o no ir es el problema....

So, I met up with a POT last night. We went out for one of my favorites, Indian food! All went well, but he said he wouldn't be available until January. The idea of keeping in touch until our next outing do come up. However, I just don't know how interested he is. I feel he should be making more of an effort. That is, if he really wants me as his sb. So, I'm not so sure if I should leave or stick around for a bit longer?! I mean, we've met up twice for dinner, and have been communicating since September!

This brings me to my next dilemma! He has yet to ask what I'm looking for!!! Expectations, allowance, nothing of the sort has come up yet! I read in a blog that this should be the topic of conversation by the second date, at most. The third day is a stretch.

Furthermore, he doesn't really provide me with any professional advice. He asked about how my job search was going, and I told him I had a few interviews last week. However, nothing stemmed from them. He just nodded, and said "yea, it can be tough." I asked him his perspective on where I might be going wrong, and he gave me a mediocre answer. "Employers, most of the time, are looking for experienced candidates, but they will not take a chance to give you that experience." Well, duh! It's one of the reasons I'm having a hard time finding a job. This is a masters educated guy! I'm sure he has more knowledge than that for me!

He seemed bored throughout the entire date. To think of it, we were supposed to see a movie afterwards, but he said he was tired. So, maybe he was just really tired, and just a bit spacey for the night. I'm not sure what to do! Especially, since Xmas is coming up, and I definitely want something from my SDs! I want to go into the new year with a stacked bank account!

Chitown Benefits

     Omg! I had a wonderful time this weekend! I met up with NOLA in Chicago this past Friday evening. I didn't want dinner. So, he grabbed something before we met up. We went to see a movie, the one with Brad Pitt. (I don't remember the name.) Lol. I wanted to see Flight, but he was like, "Nah." Hehe.

     Saturday, we went sightseeing for the most part. We ended up at a flea market. I'm thinkin I hope he isn't trying to take me shopping here! Well, the churro was oh so delicious, but I'm not looking for any other goods at a flea market. Not with my SD, that is. Lol. So, he asks around for another flea market, and we head over to it. Well, by this point I know for sure he must be looking for something in particular. So, I ask him, and he says he's looking for an old friend.

     So, we get to the 2nd flea market, and sure enough the first person we ask knows the guy he's looking for! So, I let him talk and catch, while I explore the FLEE (because I wanted to flee to a real mall!) market.

     Afterwards, we headed back to the hotel to freshen up. Then, we headed out to go shopping! Contrary to what I've just written above I really don't want to go shopping. I'd just ordered boots, and was planning to save anything I'll be getting from SDs for the rest if the year. However, he gave me money. So, I headed to the boot section(lol) while he search for a shirt.

     I didn't find anything, and that was ok with me. I pocketed the money, he made his purchase, and we headed out. On the way back, I stopped at the best spa an nail ever, Belle, while he headed back to the hotel. (We had passed this place on the way to do some shopping, and he asked if I wanted to get my nails done.) Of course, I do! I almost expect him to do this for me every time! Hehe. He always asks. At any rate, we later went to a benefit concert featuring Musiq Soulchild!

    Honestly, we initially searched for tickets for the Miguel concert, but it was sold out! Lol. So, he lucked up, and found the benefit concert. Now, when he purchased them, he didn't know that it was a benefit concert, but it turned out really well. The Calhoun family of Chicago puts on an annual benefit concert to raise money for college scholarships for the youth. (I was surprised to see Darlene from Fox News co-hosting!) So, it was a good time for a good cause!

***Well, that's my news for the time being! He wants to go somewhere warm next time. So, hopefully he sticks to that idea when booking flights! Lol.


P.S. I just left Jamba Juice, and the server made too much for my 16oz. So, I was upgraded to a 20oz for free! :) Also, I have a second date Thursday with a POT! Wish me luck!