...Up in the sky
So, I arrived in NOLA yesterday afternoon. I wasn't in first class, but that would've been nice. Right?! Lol. Just as a warning, this post will be a bit short. Lol. I'm in NOLA until Sat., with my best sd! So, I told him about my crappy Android phone, and he got me an iPhone! Ok, so, it's not the iphone5, but I didn't want to push my luck or seem ungrateful. Also, early on, he gave me a few hundred dollars for, "pocket change," right after my flight landed here. I got a mani pedi, workout clothing, and a pair of SHOES!
So, my Nike comfort footbed flip flops broke! These aren't inexpensive sandals! I was oh so surprised when this happened in the MALL! Good thing I was in there when it happened. (He dropped me off, and went to handle business with work.)
All is going well, thus far. I can tell he's thinking about intimacy. It's that time of the month for me. So, I don't have to worry about an excuse this time. Besides, he's a good looking guy. So, I'll probably be ok when the time comes.
I'll update this post after I return home! Happy weekend!
P.S. Lil Wayne was literally a few blocks(about 25mins) away from where I was getting my nails done! I would've loved to get a pic, at least!
Thursday, September 27, 2012
Sunday, September 16, 2012
Update: Mr. Grey & The Fraud
50 Shades?
So, about a week ago, I discussed a trip to NY. Well, that trip has been canceled until October! He gets free Jets/Giants tickets. He has some for this weekend, but needed to be in his hometown for business. So, the trip is delayed a few weeks. I'm ok with that. However, he will be flying me down to NOLA soon. Hopefully, next weekend because I'm ready for a change of scenery!
$50 5hr Trip
Of course, I did NOT go! However, I have a friend that went a couple of times, thinking this guy would change! So, the first time she went, she took a 7hr+ bus ride to see Dablo.* She told me he reimbursed the round-trip, he told me he only gave her $40.
Let's rewind! I'm in the car with Dablo driving around the city, and he asks if I want to see pics of his ex-sbs. Well, sure, why not? (This is rude of him, but I oblige.) Btw, this occurs before he tries to pull the willy over me. Lol. Anyway, so, we're flicking through the pics, and I'm like, "Um, I know this girl." (This is when I find out that my "friend" has already seen this guy.) So, next up is a video. Hmmm. I will not go into grave detail, but I will say it was a sex tape of my friend! She's a play for pay type of sb, and figured a big reward would be awaiting at the end of their rendezvous. Wooow, really?!
So, I ask her about it after I get home. I'm like, "Demi*, I've been saying I'm meeting this guy, using his name, for the past few weeks, and you failed to inform me that this guy is a fraud"! Then, I hit her with the sex tape info, and she's like, "I was a bit ashamed to say what happened." I was at a lost for words. This guy was trying to play me, like he played her! To make matters worse, I found out HE LEFT RIGHT AFTER HE GOT WHAT HE WANTED, saying, "I have to feed my dog." Lol. OMG, this guy is insane!
***The possibility of this situation occurring is why I do not do play for pay. That, and I've had a personal experience with this before.***
BE SAFE!!!!
So, about a week ago, I discussed a trip to NY. Well, that trip has been canceled until October! He gets free Jets/Giants tickets. He has some for this weekend, but needed to be in his hometown for business. So, the trip is delayed a few weeks. I'm ok with that. However, he will be flying me down to NOLA soon. Hopefully, next weekend because I'm ready for a change of scenery!
$50 5hr Trip
Of course, I did NOT go! However, I have a friend that went a couple of times, thinking this guy would change! So, the first time she went, she took a 7hr+ bus ride to see Dablo.* She told me he reimbursed the round-trip, he told me he only gave her $40.
Let's rewind! I'm in the car with Dablo driving around the city, and he asks if I want to see pics of his ex-sbs. Well, sure, why not? (This is rude of him, but I oblige.) Btw, this occurs before he tries to pull the willy over me. Lol. Anyway, so, we're flicking through the pics, and I'm like, "Um, I know this girl." (This is when I find out that my "friend" has already seen this guy.) So, next up is a video. Hmmm. I will not go into grave detail, but I will say it was a sex tape of my friend! She's a play for pay type of sb, and figured a big reward would be awaiting at the end of their rendezvous. Wooow, really?!
So, I ask her about it after I get home. I'm like, "Demi*, I've been saying I'm meeting this guy, using his name, for the past few weeks, and you failed to inform me that this guy is a fraud"! Then, I hit her with the sex tape info, and she's like, "I was a bit ashamed to say what happened." I was at a lost for words. This guy was trying to play me, like he played her! To make matters worse, I found out HE LEFT RIGHT AFTER HE GOT WHAT HE WANTED, saying, "I have to feed my dog." Lol. OMG, this guy is insane!
***The possibility of this situation occurring is why I do not do play for pay. That, and I've had a personal experience with this before.***
BE SAFE!!!!
Friday, September 7, 2012
Mr. Fraud
The Before
On a completely different "sd" note, I got played! So, back in July, I met up with Dablo,* who seemed to be pretty legit. Agreed upon my arrival were gifts, one for my bday, gas reimbursement, and a meeting fee( whatsyourprice.com). So, I was pretty excited, and wasn't concerned about the TWO hour drive to meet him. Upon his request, we met at mall, (I thought that was a sign... haha). I hopped in his car, and we went to a mediocre sushi place, but it was a good restaurant. (Be careful with this, My naive behavior will be addressed later.)
He ended up not having any gifts, including the gas reimbursement. In addition, he picked up condoms, with me in the car, and expected me to go to a hotel with him. I let him book the hotel, and even had him buy wine, of which I had a half of (plastic) cup. Classy, right?! At any rate, I told him that he should not expect me to sleep with him, especially on the first meeting. I left after he refused to give me gas.
Longer story short, he called me last week! Haha, some audacity this guy has contacting me! I started to give him the unruliest message ever. However, I opted to give him a taste of his own medicine! Haha! He wants me to drive to him, even though he knows I'm now more than 5hrs away! Even crazier, he wants me to drive to him for $50, supposedly, another $50 when I get there! So, I told him to send the $50, he does. We then make plans for me to drive down. I upheld everything to even a set time when I "departed" my city. Lol. A few hours later he calls asking, "How far along are you"? "Well, my car broke down", is what I tell him. However, I had never left! This was my little tactic to receive some kind of reimbursement for my previous meeting with him. I know this seems awful, but the guy should not be on the site if he's going to be a fraud. He wasted my time, and money. At least, his time was spared.
*This denotes the name I used as a pseudonym. Also, there's more to this story, and it's even worse than the way he played me. I'll update you all in another post!
On a completely different "sd" note, I got played! So, back in July, I met up with Dablo,* who seemed to be pretty legit. Agreed upon my arrival were gifts, one for my bday, gas reimbursement, and a meeting fee( whatsyourprice.com). So, I was pretty excited, and wasn't concerned about the TWO hour drive to meet him. Upon his request, we met at mall, (I thought that was a sign... haha). I hopped in his car, and we went to a mediocre sushi place, but it was a good restaurant. (Be careful with this, My naive behavior will be addressed later.)
He ended up not having any gifts, including the gas reimbursement. In addition, he picked up condoms, with me in the car, and expected me to go to a hotel with him. I let him book the hotel, and even had him buy wine, of which I had a half of (plastic) cup. Classy, right?! At any rate, I told him that he should not expect me to sleep with him, especially on the first meeting. I left after he refused to give me gas.
Longer story short, he called me last week! Haha, some audacity this guy has contacting me! I started to give him the unruliest message ever. However, I opted to give him a taste of his own medicine! Haha! He wants me to drive to him, even though he knows I'm now more than 5hrs away! Even crazier, he wants me to drive to him for $50, supposedly, another $50 when I get there! So, I told him to send the $50, he does. We then make plans for me to drive down. I upheld everything to even a set time when I "departed" my city. Lol. A few hours later he calls asking, "How far along are you"? "Well, my car broke down", is what I tell him. However, I had never left! This was my little tactic to receive some kind of reimbursement for my previous meeting with him. I know this seems awful, but the guy should not be on the site if he's going to be a fraud. He wasted my time, and money. At least, his time was spared.
*This denotes the name I used as a pseudonym. Also, there's more to this story, and it's even worse than the way he played me. I'll update you all in another post!
Mr. Grey?
Not quite! Lol.
The Current
However, my current sd and I will be heading to NY in a few weeks! On a related note, I'm a bit nervous to ask this guy for things. I mean, I have an sd who I've never been afraid to ask for help, but it's a bit different with this guy. We already established that I don't want any monetary assistance from him. However, we discussed shopping, trips, social events, etc.. Well, I'm ready to go shopping! Haha!
The thing is, I don't know how to ask! I mean, we've only met up once, but we've been chatting for almost two months. In addition, he must be interested if we're planning another meeting. Then, I think.... "Well, we're going to NY. So, there has to be some shopping in there somewhere, right?!" Argh, I think I'm going to wait it out with this guy. Lol. I mean, I don't necessarily need anything. I just want! Hehe. Ok, that is settle, I will not ask just yet! Besides, he knows what I want. So, I'm sure that is something he's worked in our trip.
The Current
However, my current sd and I will be heading to NY in a few weeks! On a related note, I'm a bit nervous to ask this guy for things. I mean, I have an sd who I've never been afraid to ask for help, but it's a bit different with this guy. We already established that I don't want any monetary assistance from him. However, we discussed shopping, trips, social events, etc.. Well, I'm ready to go shopping! Haha!
The thing is, I don't know how to ask! I mean, we've only met up once, but we've been chatting for almost two months. In addition, he must be interested if we're planning another meeting. Then, I think.... "Well, we're going to NY. So, there has to be some shopping in there somewhere, right?!" Argh, I think I'm going to wait it out with this guy. Lol. I mean, I don't necessarily need anything. I just want! Hehe. Ok, that is settle, I will not ask just yet! Besides, he knows what I want. So, I'm sure that is something he's worked in our trip.
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