So, guess who's starting to contact me?
Yep, it's NOLA. I guess his desired thin sugar babies aren't turning out to be what he expected!! (No offense to thin sugar babies! I still wish I were one! Lol.)
At any rate, he's supposedly in the hospital for a reason I do not feel like discussing. (Nothing deadly, he's doing well.) I'm not sure what to do because he is starting to imply that we continue where we left off from. He actually still asks me if I've been working out, and implies that I "probably look good now". The nerve of him!!! (I'm actually 20lbs heavier than the last time he saw me, which is 40lbs heavier than when we met! Take that NOLA! Actually, that is not very healthy on my end.. Gotta love being depressed, right?!)
Anyway, I just can't believe he is trying to get me back. My first mind, is saying, " HELL TO THE NO!!! I mean, he did leave me hanging with a no clue as to what went wrong! He did not even send a text!!
On the other hand, he asked about my car.(We talked about my need of a new one on multiple occasions.) So, I told him, it's pretty much the same as before. He response, well, maybe I can help you with that when I get out of the hospital. Hmmm, I do need a new car, and I'm also trying to move out of my mom's.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN THIS SITUATION!?!?
Anyway, I just can't believe he is trying to get me back. My first mind, is saying, " HELL TO THE NO!!! I mean, he did leave me hanging with a no clue as to what went wrong! He did not even send a text!!
On the other hand, he asked about my car.(We talked about my need of a new one on multiple occasions.) So, I told him, it's pretty much the same as before. He response, well, maybe I can help you with that when I get out of the hospital. Hmmm, I do need a new car, and I'm also trying to move out of my mom's.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN THIS SITUATION!?!?
Before jumping head first back into things with him I'd definitely see what he is willing to do to help you/see what the terms of your arrangement would be ... and then maybe go from there? Or just start seeing him and pending how he does decide to drop him or not based on what he does/doesn't do for you.
ReplyDeleteThis is a good idea. I'm going to take this advice!! Last time, our arrangement consisted of trips, and shopping, which he didn't do to the extent I was expecting. He did give an average $800/month. However, that only happened two of the four months we communicated. So, things will be different now in terms of what I want out of it.
ReplyDeleteHey, I just started reading your blog and I agree that it's best to thread carefully. I also think it would work to your advantage to be upfront about your needs, so he doesn't think he can just pick you up and drop you off when he feels like it. Hope it all works out well! x
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