Unexpected Update on NOLA

So, of course, I was just being ubber paranoid. Everything, physical wellbeing, checks out okay! That was a lesson learned. Of course, it's always the hard way with me, but better now that later! Before I got things checked out, I sent NOLA a text asking why was he so deceitful. I've been trying to refrain from texting SDs that drop me, but I needed closure from this situation. He, out of nowhere, just stopped contacting me. At any rate, he tells me he's sorry for his abrupt nature, and that he is battling prostate cancer.  Of course, I'm sympathetic of this, but still question why he just did not tell me this in the first place. It kind of makes sense because he said he is in a hospital in Houston, and he had been traveling there a lot. Not only that, but I'm wondering if this was the business he was taking care before I joined him in Texas, last year. At any rate, this does not explain why he was still visiting the site. I mean, do you think he was just there to look at girls? Perhaps, he did not want to pay my flight to see him. So, he found a sugar baby in Houston, or super close? Idk, but whatever the circumstance, he should have told me when it occurred. I was so distraught, as you can tell from my earlier post. I really went into a self conscious state of mind that I had not seen in years! Yes, I know I should not let anyone's actions influence that, but it did. I can't help it, but I'm working on it! Hope all is well with you lovely! P.S. Not sure if I said so already, but I have a job!! I officially started last week with training, and received my first case yesterday! I'm very excited, if you can't tell! :)

Not Sweet Enough

The following is what I found online for a past sugar daddy. So unfortunately, this information wasn't available around the time I was researching him, before we met. The second response (below) is what I wrote. I could just be paranoid, but I will not know for sure until I see a doctor. I'm so scared.

I'm so pissed at myself for letting it get to this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for thinking about the sugar. In the end it's never worth it. I should've known this. It was all too good to be true. I'm obviously, officially done with the sugar hunting.

***Beware of him everyone!

escort
12 Oct 2012
= realtor. He books fake appts to waste your time as a joke
Call Type: Prank Call


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sugardaddyforme
23 min ago
********.... We talked for months before deciding to meet. Finally met, and he seemed to be nice, but I think he's infected with something, and is deliberatley spreading it to women in the site. He made me think we had more than a sugar relationship. Don't be like me, be safe and wrap it up. i was so dumb. Beware of this guy. He's very sweet, and convincing, but his intentions are shady. I haven't confirmed anything, but I believe he is on the site to harm women. I will update after I'm tested.
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Termina la vida azúcar!

     Well, I tried to anyway! I really did. I've been having a steady amount of interviews, and I received two callbacks for second interviews, followed by one callback for shadowing. So, I stopped actively looking for a sugar daddy after I was dumped for being too fat! Ha, go figure. At any rate, I just didn't think much of it until a POT contacted me for dinner and drinks. 

     This was definitely surprising for me because I hadn't seen him since early December! This is also the guy who never really did much besides dinner. So, I was actually thinking about canceling on him. However, I'm glad I didn't! At the end if our date he handed me, what turned out to only be, $100. I'm disappointed with the amount, but it shows hope for him. I think? We discussed plans for me to meet him in Chicago. He said he'd like to meet soon! So, we'll see! 

     I'm back in the sugar game, and not so sure I want to be. I'm really thinking, at least, one of the jobs will come through. I guess there's nothing wrong with keeping a bit of sugar on the side. Especially, being that I'm still single!

Es 2013!!!!

Career Status

I think I definitely have a job! I was told I'd hear something good in the next week! Also, I have a friend who works at a nice place that happens to be looking for employees! I'm ready! :) J O B, word of the day until I'm hired! :)

POTs Status



So, I decided to forgo developing anything with me 2012 POTs. I also took a break (two weeks), away from the SD sites. I was too frustrated with NOLA, and Mr. Chicago to do any hunting.

I'd gotten quite a few messages from all three SD sites while in break. Now, I currently have three new POTs! Hopefully, arrangements with the POTs will be set up soon!

NOLA

I think we're officially done! He hasn't called, texted, emailed since we last discuss him sending me money for "Xmas". I haven't either because I will not chase a SD! On to the next!

Lerner

He's not really a confirmed SD, but I'm looking forward to forming some arrangement with him. I haven't talked to him since our date last week. I'm hoping he's just busy. :/

***I can feel that good things await me this year!

Xmas Update!

Update!!! 12/28/12

      One of my SDs , who I'll call Lerner, got me a dress for Xmas! Actually, I don't consider him a sd, but whatever. I haven't talked about this guy much because he is always so busy! We made plans for dinner Wed., but he canceled. Tonight we had dinner, and afterwards he had a gift for me! I wanted this dress a few weeks ago, but he told me it had sold out! Lol.

I thought the gift was a bit light weighted to be a dress. So, after unraveling the Xmas wrapping, (that he neatly done himself), I thought it was a shirt! However, it was my David Lerner dress! This guy is so sweet! This was our second date, and we've only had dinner both outings! I love that he's so thoughtful!

NOLA is supposedly sending me money tomorrow. We'll see if he comes through. ;)

Not So Merry Xmas....

     I didn't receive anything from any of the 10 SDs I'm talking to! Ok, so, in reality I've only went out with three of them, but they didn't give anything either! I'm so disappointed, ashamed, and thinking about dropping the sugar hunt. Even my NOLA SD skipped out! (His update below!) I've started talking to regular guys, and think I'm going to see how that goes. I just want to be happy, at this point. Eff the sugar! Btw, my ex and I are not getting back together. We broke up for a reason, and I do not wish to revisit the past.

NOLA

     I have not traveled anywhere since October! I now know for sure that he's flying someone else. There's no reason for him to skip out, other than him having another sugar baby! I'm disappointed that he did not tell me upfront about this. So, I talked to him Xmas Eve, and he said he's planning something for January. Whatever, he's been planning since November! I'm almost over this guy. He never gave me as much as I wanted anyway. I only really stuck around because I don't have a better SD.

***The sugar world is suppose to make things less stressful. Eh, I guess you win some, and you lose some.***

Lights, Camera, Action

Producer/Actor Guy

     I was determined to get a window seat on the plane, and there were a few available. So, I asked the stewardess if there was anyone assigned to the empty row I spotted. To my avail, there was not! Hooray! Unfortunately, a mother and her two young boys stroll down the aisle looking for seats, together. 😒 So, of course, I give them the seats! Not only because the kiddies were adorable, but because there's no way I couldn't give up the seats without it being on my conscious! So, I move up a seat, and ask the gentleman seated on the aisle (seat) if he would mind if I shared the row with him. He almost instantly arose for me! Yay, I have a window seat, and I'm not stuck in the back! Ugh, I hate the rear seats! At any rate, my plan for sleeping fell through. We began chatting, and the conversation lasted the whole two hours of the flight! We discussed films, educations, careers, and more.

     Phew, the time really passed quickly! As we began to descend, he asks if I would like to exchange contact information. Sure, no harm in that, right?! "What's your name?" I ask as I grab my phone. He doesn't say anything, and proceeds to search for what turns out to be his plane ticket. As I looked down at his name, (because he dared not to speak it out loud), I did NOT see anything that stuck out. So, I copied the info into my phone. We exchanged numbers, wished one another well, and went our separate ways.

    As I waited for my connecting flight, I did a little research on the films we discussed! So, this guy is a producer, and actor! That much I knew already from our chat, but did not expect to find what I did. So, I failed to realize WHO he was until I told my mom about him. She suggested that he is kin to a very prominent actor. So, I look it up, and sure enough, he is! Omg, did I really just meet this guy, and not connect the dots to who he might be?! Yep, I'll admit it! I'm just a bit ditsy at times!

     I'm way to nervous to ask him about it. I mean, I do not want him to think in talking to him because of who he is. Though, how could he when I didn't even know who he was when we exchanged contact info?! So, I say nothing. About two weeks later we phone chat, and yet I say nothing. Fast forward to today, I send him a text wishing him happy holidays. He calls me, and I miss the call. However, of course, I return it! We discuss his upcoming films, and what he's working on now. We also discuss my plans, career moves, etc.. (Btw, I have an interview I tomorrow! Wish me luck!) So, I have to ask him about who he is because I feel I'm being deceitful. (I'm not sure why, I just felt I was hiding something.) He confirms, and we move on! I should have asked earlier! I feel much more relieved now! Lol. I'm going to keep in touch, but not too much! He's married!

**Be back in twenty thirteen!!!**