Please, Don't Kill My Vibe(Quick Update)

I am officially not a sugar baby, anymore. I have been working for the last six months. I do not like it, but my bills are getting paid. Everything is going ok without the sugar life. I just have to remind myself, I do not need to be apart of that world. I can make it on my own. My life is good right now. I am on the path to be the healthy me, I was before it all. I am also thinking about a career change, which means I'm headed back to school, or Hollywood! Lol. We'll see. I continue to communicate with NOLA. We saw one another this past June, when he flew me to Vegas, and met me there for my birthday. I had a good time. However, I have been going to church, and trying to get my life a bit more stable, on the "straight and narrow". So, I deleted my sugar baby accounts, and I'm trying to find any other accounts that I might have missed. "I am not going to lie, it was hard leaving the sugar world. Every so often, I have thoughts of relapsing. Lol. Don't laugh! Omg! It is crazy that I think that way, but the life of a sb is addicting." ~Sabie Back to NOLA... We still talk, as I stated above, and I was supposed to see him today, but something came up. The thing with NOLA is, I do not see him as a sugar daddy. He is not a sugar daddy. He is a friend, and a confidant. In fact, if he did not care about what people think, I would not mind being in a committed relationship with him. I know that sounds crazy, right?! At any rate, I have been on a few regular dates, and they were all average. Of course, I have not found a guy as of now. Nothing compares when one has lived the sugar life, and that was a minimal/basic sugar life. However, I try to realize that every guy will not have everything. I mean, what I want is love, not sugar. Ultimately, that is the only thing I ever wanted, a guy by my side. Until next time! XOXO Sabie

Interesting Update

So, guess who's starting to contact me? Yep, it's NOLA. I guess his desired thin sugar babies aren't turning out to be what he expected!! (No offense to thin sugar babies! I still wish I were one! Lol.) At any rate, he's supposedly in the hospital for a reason I do not feel like discussing. (Nothing deadly, he's doing well.) I'm not sure what to do because he is starting to imply that we continue where we left off from. He actually still asks me if I've been working out, and implies that I "probably look good now". The nerve of him!!! (I'm actually 20lbs heavier than the last time he saw me, which is 40lbs heavier than when we met! Take that NOLA! Actually, that is not very healthy on my end.. Gotta love being depressed, right?!) Anyway, I just can't believe he is trying to get me back. My first mind, is saying, " HELL TO THE NO!!! I mean, he did leave me hanging with a no clue as to what went wrong! He did not even send a text!! On the other hand, he asked about my car.(We talked about my need of a new one on multiple occasions.) So, I told him, it's pretty much the same as before. He response, well, maybe I can help you with that when I get out of the hospital. Hmmm, I do need a new car, and I'm also trying to move out of my mom's. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN THIS SITUATION!?!?

Unexpected Update on NOLA

So, of course, I was just being ubber paranoid. Everything, physical wellbeing, checks out okay! That was a lesson learned. Of course, it's always the hard way with me, but better now that later! Before I got things checked out, I sent NOLA a text asking why was he so deceitful. I've been trying to refrain from texting SDs that drop me, but I needed closure from this situation. He, out of nowhere, just stopped contacting me. At any rate, he tells me he's sorry for his abrupt nature, and that he is battling prostate cancer.  Of course, I'm sympathetic of this, but still question why he just did not tell me this in the first place. It kind of makes sense because he said he is in a hospital in Houston, and he had been traveling there a lot. Not only that, but I'm wondering if this was the business he was taking care before I joined him in Texas, last year. At any rate, this does not explain why he was still visiting the site. I mean, do you think he was just there to look at girls? Perhaps, he did not want to pay my flight to see him. So, he found a sugar baby in Houston, or super close? Idk, but whatever the circumstance, he should have told me when it occurred. I was so distraught, as you can tell from my earlier post. I really went into a self conscious state of mind that I had not seen in years! Yes, I know I should not let anyone's actions influence that, but it did. I can't help it, but I'm working on it! Hope all is well with you lovely! P.S. Not sure if I said so already, but I have a job!! I officially started last week with training, and received my first case yesterday! I'm very excited, if you can't tell! :)

Not Sweet Enough

The following is what I found online for a past sugar daddy. So unfortunately, this information wasn't available around the time I was researching him, before we met. The second response (below) is what I wrote. I could just be paranoid, but I will not know for sure until I see a doctor. I'm so scared.

I'm so pissed at myself for letting it get to this point. I'm sooo mad at myself for thinking about the sugar. In the end it's never worth it. I should've known this. It was all too good to be true. I'm obviously, officially done with the sugar hunting.

***Beware of him everyone!

escort
12 Oct 2012
= realtor. He books fake appts to waste your time as a joke
Call Type: Prank Call


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sugardaddyforme
23 min ago
********.... We talked for months before deciding to meet. Finally met, and he seemed to be nice, but I think he's infected with something, and is deliberatley spreading it to women in the site. He made me think we had more than a sugar relationship. Don't be like me, be safe and wrap it up. i was so dumb. Beware of this guy. He's very sweet, and convincing, but his intentions are shady. I haven't confirmed anything, but I believe he is on the site to harm women. I will update after I'm tested.
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Termina la vida azúcar!

     Well, I tried to anyway! I really did. I've been having a steady amount of interviews, and I received two callbacks for second interviews, followed by one callback for shadowing. So, I stopped actively looking for a sugar daddy after I was dumped for being too fat! Ha, go figure. At any rate, I just didn't think much of it until a POT contacted me for dinner and drinks. 

     This was definitely surprising for me because I hadn't seen him since early December! This is also the guy who never really did much besides dinner. So, I was actually thinking about canceling on him. However, I'm glad I didn't! At the end if our date he handed me, what turned out to only be, $100. I'm disappointed with the amount, but it shows hope for him. I think? We discussed plans for me to meet him in Chicago. He said he'd like to meet soon! So, we'll see! 

     I'm back in the sugar game, and not so sure I want to be. I'm really thinking, at least, one of the jobs will come through. I guess there's nothing wrong with keeping a bit of sugar on the side. Especially, being that I'm still single!

Es 2013!!!!

Career Status

I think I definitely have a job! I was told I'd hear something good in the next week! Also, I have a friend who works at a nice place that happens to be looking for employees! I'm ready! :) J O B, word of the day until I'm hired! :)

POTs Status



So, I decided to forgo developing anything with me 2012 POTs. I also took a break (two weeks), away from the SD sites. I was too frustrated with NOLA, and Mr. Chicago to do any hunting.

I'd gotten quite a few messages from all three SD sites while in break. Now, I currently have three new POTs! Hopefully, arrangements with the POTs will be set up soon!

NOLA

I think we're officially done! He hasn't called, texted, emailed since we last discuss him sending me money for "Xmas". I haven't either because I will not chase a SD! On to the next!

Lerner

He's not really a confirmed SD, but I'm looking forward to forming some arrangement with him. I haven't talked to him since our date last week. I'm hoping he's just busy. :/

***I can feel that good things await me this year!

Xmas Update!

Update!!! 12/28/12

      One of my SDs , who I'll call Lerner, got me a dress for Xmas! Actually, I don't consider him a sd, but whatever. I haven't talked about this guy much because he is always so busy! We made plans for dinner Wed., but he canceled. Tonight we had dinner, and afterwards he had a gift for me! I wanted this dress a few weeks ago, but he told me it had sold out! Lol.

I thought the gift was a bit light weighted to be a dress. So, after unraveling the Xmas wrapping, (that he neatly done himself), I thought it was a shirt! However, it was my David Lerner dress! This guy is so sweet! This was our second date, and we've only had dinner both outings! I love that he's so thoughtful!

NOLA is supposedly sending me money tomorrow. We'll see if he comes through. ;)